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YesList vs ThatSexQuiz: which fits your couple?
Last reviewed: September 2026
ThatSexQuiz and YesList both start from the same idea: you and your partner each answer on your own, then compare. ThatSexQuiz turns that into a compatibility score - overall and by category - benchmarked against other couples who've taken it. YesList skips the scoring and shows you the specific items you both said yes to. Here's how to think about which one fits what you're looking for.
What ThatSexQuiz offers
ThatSexQuiz has each partner answer separately, then generates a compatibility score and a sexual-personality read for each of you, measured against thousands of other couples' answers. You can add custom questions for a fee. For ThatSexQuiz's current pricing and features, check thatsexquiz.com directly.
Where YesList is different
YesList doesn't produce a score or benchmark you against anyone else's answers. It's built around an ongoing, revisitable list: you answer, your partner answers, and a match appears the moment you've both said yes to the same specific thing - nothing to interpret, nothing to compare against a wider dataset.
Free vs. paid
YesList is free to use, with no paid add-ons. ThatSexQuiz's core quiz is free with an optional paid custom-question add-on - check their site for current pricing before you decide.
Privacy and what your partner can see
On YesList, your partner only ever sees the items you both independently marked yes to. Everything else - a no, a maybe, or something you haven't answered yet - stays private to you. For details on how any other app collects or benchmarks your answers, read that app's own privacy policy directly.
Getting started with your partner
To get started on YesList, each of you creates a free account and links to the other. From there you both answer independently, at your own pace, and matches appear as they happen - no need to finish in one sitting or interpret a score together.
See how YesList compares elsewhere
For more on the private, mutual-match approach YesList is built on, see our guide on sex surveys for couples. Also comparing Carnal Calibration or Spicer? See how each stacks up, or try YesList's own free taster quiz - no account needed.
Frequently asked
Is YesList like ThatSexQuiz?
Both let partners answer independently and see where they overlap. ThatSexQuiz adds a compatibility score benchmarked against other couples' answers; YesList skips scoring and shows the specific mutual matches themselves. Check ThatSexQuiz's own site for its current features and pricing.
Is YesList free?
Yes, YesList is free to use. For ThatSexQuiz's current pricing and any paid add-ons, check their site directly.
What can my partner see?
Your partner only ever sees items you both independently marked yes. A no or a maybe stays private and is never shown to them.
Do we need to link our accounts?
Yes, each partner creates a YesList account and links to the other so matches can be compared automatically.
Does YesList show a compatibility score?
No. YesList shows the actual list of mutual matches rather than a single score benchmarked against other couples - the point is what you two specifically agree on, not how you rank against anyone else.