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YesList vs Comparekink: which fits your couple?
Last reviewed: September 2026
Comparekink and YesList both use independent answering with only mutual matches revealed. Comparekink is scoped to kink specifically, adds a dominant/submissive/kinky score, and works under a pseudonym with no full account. YesList covers kink as one of ten categories and keeps everything tied to an ongoing account instead of a single scored session. Here's how the two compare.
What Comparekink offers
Comparekink is a free, pseudonym-based kink test - take it solo for a personal score, or invite a partner to reveal only the kinks you both said yes to. The first 10 results are free. For its current scoring, categories, and pricing beyond that, check comparekink.com directly.
Where YesList is different
YesList doesn't produce a dominant/submissive/kinky score, and kink is only one of ten categories - alongside romance, foreplay, positions, and more. Answers are tied to a real account rather than a pseudonym, so your list stays available and updatable across sessions instead of expiring with the browser tab.
Free vs. paid
YesList is free to use, with nothing gated behind a result count or paid tier. Check Comparekink's site directly for its current free-result limit and any paid options.
Privacy and what your partner can see
On YesList, your partner only ever sees the items you both independently marked yes to. Everything else - a no, a maybe, or something unanswered - stays private to you. For details on how any other site handles pseudonymous data, read that site's own privacy policy directly.
Getting started with your partner
To get started on YesList, each of you creates a free account and links to the other. From there you both answer independently, across all ten categories, and matches appear as they happen.
See how YesList compares elsewhere
For more on the private, mutual-match approach YesList is built on, see our guide on sex surveys for couples. Also comparing Sexionnaire or Yes No Maybe App? See how each stacks up, or try YesList's own free taster quiz - no account needed.
Frequently asked
Is YesList like Comparekink?
Both let partners answer independently and reveal only mutual matches. Comparekink is a kink-focused test that also scores you on dominant/submissive/kinky, taken under a pseudonym; YesList covers every category and skips scoring in favor of an account-based, ongoing list. Check Comparekink's own site for its current details.
Is YesList free?
Yes, YesList is free to use, with no results locked behind a paid tier.
Does YesList cover more than kink?
Yes. Kink is one of ten categories on YesList, alongside romance, foreplay, positions, and others - Comparekink is scoped specifically to kink.
What can my partner see?
Your partner only ever sees items you both independently marked yes. A no or a maybe stays private and is never shown to them.
Do we need an account?
Yes, each partner creates a free YesList account and links to the other, rather than using a pseudonym for a single session.