Sex Toys - 27 questions
A couples sex toy checklist, rated yes, no, or maybe
Last reviewed: September 2026
Sex Toys is YesList's second-largest category - 27 questions functioning as a couples toys checklist you rate together, one item at a time. As with every category, you and your partner answer privately, and a match only appears once you've both said yes to the same toy or use.
What's in the Sex Toys category
Expect questions about vibrators, remote-control toys one partner operates for the other, restraint accessories, sensory toys built around temperature or texture, toys designed for couples specifically, and blindfolds. The range covers both which toys interest you and how you'd want to use them together.
Why a checklist works better than a shopping trip
Toys are an area where interest and awkwardness are often tangled together - it can feel strange to bring up wanting to try something specific, even when your partner would react well to it. Rating each item privately separates "would I want this" from "how do I bring this up," which is usually the harder half of the conversation.
It also means you're not guessing at your partner's comfort level from general impressions. A specific mutual yes on, say, a remote-control toy tells you something concrete that a vague "are you into toys?" conversation usually doesn't.
Talking about your matches
Once you have a match, the practical next step is usually the toy itself - what to get, if you don't already have it, and any comfort or logistics questions worth settling before you try it. Treat the match as agreement on interest, not a commitment to a specific brand or price point; that part is worth a separate, ordinary conversation.
A maybe is a genuinely useful answer here - toy interest often depends on trying something in practice more than most other categories, so "I'd want to see how it feels" is a reasonable place to land before a firm yes.
Where to go next
Sex Toys connects well with Foreplay, which shares several sensory themes, and with BDSM & Kink if restraint or sensation play is the part that interests you most. See the full question library, or try the free taster quiz for a sample from every category, no account required. For more on the format itself, see our guide on sex surveys for couples.
Frequently asked questions
What does the Sex Toys category cover?
27 questions across vibrators, remote-control toys, restraint accessories, sensory toys built around temperature or texture, and blindfolds - functioning as a couples toys checklist rated yes/no/maybe rather than a shopping list.
Do we need to already own toys to answer these questions?
No. You're rating interest, not inventory - a yes just means you'd want to try it, whether or not you own anything yet.
Is this category only about toys used together?
The framing is on shared use, since that's what a mutual match unlocks, but individual comfort with a given toy is part of what each question is really asking.
What if one partner is much more interested in toys than the other?
That's common, and it's exactly what separate rating is for - a real, specific mutual yes is a much better starting point than one partner guessing at the other's comfort level.